Invisible Miles...

So much I love you, Why can't I tell you? though I want to say,
My eyes expresses those words, from my heart, but looses its way,
I feel you belong with me, you aren't yet mine, all I can see
there are invisible miles between you and me.

Was it the way you look or the way things u say,
Your face never fades away it resides in my eyes.
You are near you're dear, yet far away from you it hurts to be
there are invisible miles between you and me.

And everyday my love grows stronger,
hoping that one day you will feel the same
Putting back the pieces of my broken heart,
I wish you don't fall in love with someone else
because I will be waiting for you across these invisible miles.

I wanna make you smile and and sparks will fly
Will sit by the ocean holding your arm all day
I don't feel you reciprocate the same and it's killing me
there are invisible miles between you and me.

I thought we're meant to be together you're my destiny
You're all mine in my dreams but there is a different reality
My heart complains it's ultimate desire but you're the only one I need
there are invisible miles between you and me.

And everyday my love grows stronger,
hoping that one day you will feel the same.
Putting back the pieces of my broken heart,
I wish you don't fall in love with someone else
because honey! I will be waiting for you across these invisible miles.

You run within me like an intoxication and inside I have a fray
my thoughts won't cross these feelings though I try
I loved you to get hurt, but this is all I wanted to be
there are invisible miles between you and me.

The heart is crazy it regrets it cries
to let go these feelings I can't try
can you ever be mine? can we be together?
questions remained unanswered in my broken heart
till the day these black clouds will vanish
and we will be together forever and never be apart,
ignoring the invisible miles between you and me.

And everyday my love grows stronger and stronger,
hoping that one day you will feel the same
Putting back the pieces of my broken heart.
I wish you don't fall in love with someone else
Yeah Baby! I will be waiting for you across these invisible miles.

You Were Never the One

I used to be alone in the night
wishing someone to knock my door
you knocked, being in the middle of something ,
I kept the chain in the door.
You pushed into it and I had nothing but to feel for you,
long were the nights when my days started revolving around you
And all my friends accused me of losing my mind.
Believe me without you I was so fine.

You motivated me to dream and then you broke it over and over again
And I lived like a decoy, everyday you changed the rule of your game.
Wondering which version of you I might get on the phone tonight,
Well, I stopped caring for and this song is to let you know why.

I see it all now that you're too far away from me
Don't you think I was too innocent to be messed with?
You made my brightest day darker and you were so proud of it
I should've known you were never the one for me.

You will mind if I say you have a sick need to give love then take it away
or may be it was me and I was too blind to believe whatever you used to say
And you'll add my name to your long list of traitors for hurting your ego and pride
Well, I am so over you and this song is to let you know why.

I see it all now that you're too far away from me
Don't you think I was too sinless to be a part of your sin?
You played dark twisted games and you were so proud of it
I should've known you were never the one for me

You are an expert at making up and saying sorry
At the time I needed you the most you left me lonely
And that day you came and apologized with tears in your eyes
Well, I didn't believe you and this song is let you know why

I took your matches before fire could catch me
Don't you feel guilty faking love and saying lies to me?
You left me alone on the valentine's day and you were so proud of it
I should've known you were never the one for me

I see it all now that you're too far away from me
Don't you would've done the same, if you were in my place?
It's tragic that this is all i could write as our song
I wish you best I hope you move along
I forgive you for whatever you've done to me
I should've known you were never the one for me

The 3 me

I was a kid before,
used to wake up morning @4.
I used to have a video game,
and lots of 2d games i don't remember the name;
I was going school @ 7 o'clock,
not so far away, just 2 blocks;
I loved to eat Maggie noodles
and loved to sleep in Mommy's cuddle.


I was an adolescent too
had my problems, but no one was there for sharing to.
I had the things the way i wanted them to be,
nothing in this world could scare me;
never looked up for the future nor the past;
loved good faces,clothes,fragrance and friends with whom I had a blast.
I had my own room for privacy,
with note on the door 'Lion's Den, Can't you see?'


I am an Adult now
have loads responsibilities,don't know how?
Practicality,self respect,ambition,gratitude are the traits contained in me;
still future is the thing that is scaring me.
I am a headstrong guy I can't be so weak,
but the corruption,hypocrisy and backstabbing makes me sick
I walk in a lonely road with hundred lights that make me blind,
want to return into my childhood but life can't be rewind.

Nothing Is Meant To Be - A Short Story!

It's Friday afternoon just returned from my meeting with delegates at HHI,Bhubaneswar. Yes, I am at Bhubaneswar the place where I studied, got my first job, got another bigger job ,all that when I was at my twenties, before I shifted to Chennai. Now I am a 35 year old man,CEO of a renowned software enterprise ,rich and successful, I drive a Honda City, I wear expensive suits, watches, perfumes unlike those days when I used to save pocket money or used to ask money from my Parents in order to buy a pair of Levi's Jeans or a pair of Converse All star sneakers , now I can buy almost everything I want. It's been a long time almost everything has changed since then, there are a bunch of multiplexes, large number of show rooms and shopping malls.

It's a weekend I am getting two days break I have my flight on Saturday evening, I thought what to do for the next 30 hours, I can't visit my friends they are burdened with responsibilities, unlike me they are married and have their own families. Hence I just went to my stay at Mayfair Lagoon. I changed my clothes to pair of Levi's and casual shirt just to look younger. I guess girls still find me attractive for a small talk. I took myself to the 10th Drowning Street (Mayfair's pub), as always loud music playing, a group of foreigners sitting in one of the corner table, young couple trying to make up , some drunk people creating scene, waiter asking for tip to an old aristocratic man. With a peg of scotch on rocks , unwillingly my eyes were focused on the couple trying to make up which reminded me the days I spent with Aditi.

Now who is Aditi ?Aditi Sahu, She is just another person who came across me and was left behind (or I can say left me behind,whatever!). Actually She was far more than that , once upon a time she was the love of my life. I never met her after I left my College, It's been a long time we talked . It was some 17 years back we had a chat on net . And some days after she deleted all her accounts in social networking sites. I was very busy those days, actually I am busy all the time I never talked to anyone from my college except some of my very close buddies. With time I lost contact with every one and never tried to keep in touch.

I left that place, I never felt like staying there anymore after the young couple patched things up, they started hugging and kissing each other so much that its hard not to stare. And once the guy saw me staring he would bring out an expression like, "You never had some of these?old ass !". I went outside I walked along the street, everything around those area has something related to Aditi. It was the i-way internet cafe where I used to chat with her. It was the Mantu's Garrage where I once repaired my bike when it got out of order on a date with Aditi, and she almost cried because it was too late to be at home. Now Mantu has put on some weight I see. The Monginis cake shop from where I took cake for her on her 18th Birthday. It was a heart shaped strawberry flavored cake with 18 candles on it. Strawberry is her favorite flavor. The Blue Heaven Restaurant where we used to eat and talk for hours .There were so many other things too. Walking along the street I reached the Botanical Garden. It is the place we had our first kiss, oh ! we were so nervous but that was spontaneous. I went inside paying 10 rupees ticket ( Earlier it was 5 rupees). Then I thought " I will find couples loving and will feel miserable again, let's left this place " . But I found the same bench we used to sit and talk. I went there and sat for some time, lost in random thoughts unless a soft hand tapped me from behind.

"Hey! how are you? It's been very very long time. I actually took time to figure out if it's you sitting right here or somebody else." Yes it was Aditi. She was looking a bit healthier than the last time I saw her live (i.e not in picture,face to face ).She was Fairer than ever. She was wearing a red salwar,also lots of bangles,a mangalsutra,and a wedding ring were there , from which I figured this out that she is married and may be she has kids, but anyways she was looking very beautiful, she was not a teenage sweet heart now whom I had dated, It was the other Aditi. The Aditi I never had and will never have. I was staring at her so she just waved her hand in front of my face.
"Oh,sorry never expected you. what are you doing here?" I said in surprise.
"This is my town , I am here as always, what are you doing here?" she asked smiling.
" Just for a meeting,stayed here as there was no flight to Chennai." I answered.
"There's not much of changes, I thought you would be bald by this time." she said mischievously.
"There's not much changes in you either, so you think about me?"I asked.
"No it was your name on papers I read...,Where is your better half ? I wanna meet her."
"Who told you I am married?" I asked and regretted the next moment that she would thought I couldn't find anyone better than her to marry.
"You... are not married ?"she was astonished and confused.
"well it's my work I got married to" I replied.
The next few moments were spent talking about old friends,teachers,events and days at college.
"So you are married ,you got your life the way you wanted. For me every thing went according to plan except those plans that I made with you." I concluded at the end.
"We were kids at that time." she said.
"When did you meet him?" I started asking about her husband.
"When we were in 5th sem ."She said.
"After our break up you remain in touch with me even though I avoided initially. I always thought we had a second chance ,unless I became busy with my projects .On farewell day you offered me dance,What was that for Christ sake?" I cried out all my feelings that were within me since we separated our ways.
"I danced with you because I wanted to, it was the last time and I wanted to make it memorable"She said.
"You always did whatever you wanted to? it wasn't love ever." I became serious.
"God dam Rishi, I love you even now,not in that way though but we were not meant to be ,why don't you understand ?" She said angrily.
"I am not Rishi ,may be It's your husband's name, and do you know it totally sux! what do you mean by we were not meant to be? I can give 100 reasons how we met,talked,liked,loved it was all by destiny,everybody wanted us together,but we just couldn't see it,though it was a mutual decision, you moved on, you have your own family but I never moved on, on college I made myself busy in geeky stuffs, I met girls ,but I always compared them with you and they simply couldn't match your standard. can you explain WTF is that?" I asked angrily.
"Please don't bring destiny into it, we were destined to love but I was destined to marry Rishi and you too are destined to be some one else's. You couldn't move on because you never wanted to.I have never compared you and Rishi.If I would have done it then it is always you than him and I would just get stuck in between. It is always our approach towards something. It was a day in a coaching class in 5th sem I got stuck in a problem and It was Rishi who helped me figure the things out and now he is my husband."She explained.
"Don't you make false excuses.If he's not better than me what made you sure of that he deserves to be your husband?" I asked calmly.
"The things I was not sure with you, you always wanted to be in past , you keep imagining unnecessary things, you keep taking things as per your perception without making valid practical judgment,whatever you believe to be true must be true. The sooner you are attracted to something ,the sooner you get bored of that. These things I never wanted in my Husband. See Dear you achieved all these things because you attempted things with consistency, you kept yourself focused on your projects with the friends whom you used to call 'geeks' after we stopped seeing each other. It was your approach towards your carrier, your dream to earn in 7 figure, drive a Honda city. But you never took this type of approach towards our relationship." She said.

A long silence prevailed and her words were buzzing in my head unless a small 10 year old kid ran towards his 'Mamma'. Yes he was Aditi's kid. His eyes and lips were exactly like his mother's, he has fair complexion that too like Aditi's. Can't say anything about his other features must be inherited from Rishi.
"What's your name baba ?"I took him into my lap and asked.
"Akshay" He replied.
Hearing those words a current ran through my body. Do you know why? Because Akshay is my name too. I remembered that day when jokingly I said Aditi, like the western culture I want to name my son Akshay Mishra Jr. but I am equally glad that although 'Mishra Jr' is absent but Aditi's kid shares same name with me.
It was evening 6 o' clock the sun was about to set we moved out of the garden when Aditi started assuming that her husband might have returned from office ( further increasing my jealousy ). Outside the garden Aditi had her car (i10,her husband is not richer than me,what a relief !) parked. She offered me lift and I accepted (God knows how I came all the way walking). On our way to my hotel she pointed towards balcony of their house on the 3rd floor of Bishnupriya apartments. I never mentioned anything to her about what I felt on my way to botanical garden looking at those shops. We stopped at Monginis the cake shop I bought lots of pastry, chocolate and ice cream for Akshay, the kid. On asking Aditi she hesitated yet I bought her cornetto strawberry ice cream cone and i also took the butter scotch . They left after Aditi finished her Ice cream her last words were "I hope next time I see you with your other half" to which I simply nodded . I looked at her i10 till it got completely disappear from my eye sight. I turned towards Mayfair Lagoon but my cell phone vibrated ( i keep it on silent mode so that i don't need to charge the battery very often under my busy schedule).It was my Boss, he congratulated me as the meeting of mine was a success and deal was done. He requested me (see how much respect he has for me) to attend another meeting on Saturday morning as I was staying up to the evening.That day evening in my room I thought of every thing that Aditi told me. I don't know when I felt asleep.

It was saturday morning I felt fresh like never since a long time. I took shower had my breakfast and get myself ready for the meeting to be held in Fortune Towers. As always I went there before time. A very pretty girl maybe in late twenties or just stepped in thirties was present there. She was wearing formal, no bindi or mangalsutra. From her appearance I could guess that she was not married. I sat on the seat next to her just before the meeting started, I also came to know that she was present there in the same purpose as mine. We looked each other and we smiled.
then she started the conversation " Are you here for the deal?"she asked
"Yes,you too?" I asked in reply.
She nodded .
"So you are a competition?...well i hope you don't get the deal." I said smiling.
"I hope same too". She said smiling." I have seen you somewhere" she said.
"Well I used to study here I don't stay here longer...must be in newspaper or journal" I suggested.
"No I got it. You were there in Botanical Garden yesterday" She remembered.
"Yes I was there,but I did not see you?" I questioned.
"Well...you must not be looking" she said.
The call was made for my meeting and I just stood up and started approaching towards the conference. But suddenly my conscience told me " If Aditi's word had 1% of effect on you,you must understand that nothing is meant to be, it is just the coincidence that leads to consequences,and we should make right approach in right time". And I turned back.
" Can we have coffee together after all these things over?" I just asked her out. "see CCD's nearby too" I asked.
"Umm..sorry ! I think it will be difficult for me, I have something else to do" she said.
I gave her a disappointment gaze for a moment then turned my back and started approaching again towards the conference hall but she called me.
"Hey! sure I mean why not?" She said smiling.
"Ok then...after this thing over..." I was confused as She was a competition.
"We will...figure this out" both said together.
"Hiii I am Akshay"I passed my hand.
"oh! I am ADITI" she replied shaking hands with me.

Yes, She was Aditi , Aditi Dash(now Aditi Mishra) my wife,my soul mate,mother of my daughter Aria.

It's Saturday evening I am leaving Bhubaneswar . The place I finalized two multi-million deal recently (will must find a place in company's board of directors). Every thing has changed here but still you can feel cool breeze blowing every evening to relief you from stress ,The God and Goddess gets worship in hundred of temples present here. Still people keep the value of friendship. Love grows by coincident. Ambitious people achieve their dream. And lonely souls like me find their soul mates.

10 Reasons, Why LOVE is Complicated?

There is no second opinion to the statement that Love is complicated. Life is full of beautiful things and Love is most beautiful thing, we love ,we live ,we get,we lose that is the process of life but anyways we swim in an ocean of complication. Some relationships survive this complication and some can't. Like the most beautiful flower , rose has a number of spikes love do come with complication. Well I am not the relationship expert here , I felt to write on this topic because today evening under some discussion with a good friend of mine this came instantaneously and I started pointing out the things and came with the ten golden ones (well, I felt so). So here it goes...

Most of the time Love is one sided, I love you,but you don't love me. You love me but I don't love you...it's complicated. Tell me whose fault is this ? You have full right to love someone , that person has full right to love or not love you in return. Cupid might mostly be drunk or drowsy to miss the target so that out of the two arrows from his bow , one hits correctly while the other misses its target.

In nowhere it is written that we can't Love two different person at the same time." I love her, she's sooo...beautiful,but I find peace in her, I love her too"; " He is so caring I would love to spend my life with him , but he's very cute I miss him too , I love both of them ". These type of thoughts often comes to our mind. Some people from past are hard to forget and we love them but we don't want to leave the person we love now at present. We may love someone more than the another but still if asked to choose between them...it's Complicated.

Love is a feeling , it has no boundary. Boundaries due to religion , caste , color , age , relationships and even sex can't confine Love. But due to restriction that are provided by the society people are bound to compromise with it ." I can't marry him , my parents won't allow " ; " I am married, I can't love her "; " I don't deserve him , what people will think? "; " We can't be together our society is against homosexuality , anyways we need to have kids in future"...it's Complicated. We love doves flying but if a pair of dove trapped in a cage , how can we experience the beauty when they fly and play up in the air ?

Love is just like having a ride without brakes, we just don't have control over it. It's not like that we know when we will fall in love and with whom. It happens... unknowingly , unintentionally , unwillingly. We realize it very soon or very late. If its too late...I mean very very late we feel like missing something in life. We feel like breathing not living life , but the person we love is gone at that time. Why there should not be something like an alarm that would beep and tell us that " Buddy! congratzzz!ur in love " ? Isn't it's Complicated?

For some love is divine and they bond emotionally with their partner. All they want to be together and provide emotional support when they need. But for some it is a lie, a game that can start anywhere but must end in a bed. For them love is just a mode to fulfill sexual desires. They use term 'time-pass' for a relationship they are not serious to. Eventually they start searching for new partner every other day. And they lie , cheat , break hearts." I loved him so much but all he wanted to sleep with me "; " I don't know why she cheated me and slept with that asshole in the new year eve?". Why love is so imbalanced ? why don't we get same amount of love in return ? why love comes with no warranty ? because it's Complicated.

Past,Present & Future are equally important. Present is highly influenced by past, a terrible mistake or a bad experience makes us reluctant to do any thing like that. Similarly we keep our eyes on future and how to make it better every time. If someone had a bad relationship in past then he will be reluctant in any new relationship or will start expecting the same in the current relationship. Some will start expecting the future with their partner , will they go together in coming time or they have something else in future ? Why can't we take a second chance so easily ? Why our bad memories in past keep us haunting while the good ones has no significance at all ?
Why we always want to see ourselves in future ?,why can't we enjoy the present ? It's Complicated.

Ego clashes happens everywhere, whether in professional relationship or personal relationship the self loving nature of human makes them egoistic. The ego comprises of that organized part of personality structure that includes defensive , perceptual , intellectual and executive functions. Conscious awareness resides in the ego , although not all the operations of the ego are conscious. The ego separates what is real. It helps us to organize our thoughts and make sense of them and world around us. In any relationship ego tries to avoid compromising situations. It deliberately avoid words like, thanks , please & sorry. Those three words make things easy with the partner.
For example," why would i call first ?";" he should have said a sorry, at least once!"; " I did so much for her and she never said a thanks even". Why love is not self less? Why we expect formalities? Why can't we see things the other way around,i.e. in our partner's point of view?... It's Complicated.

This is 21st century ,the techno era, almost every thing is governed by the technology. Cell phones, sms, orkut, facebook, twitter, shaadi.com , google, yahoo, are significant part of our lives.
Just imagine how many friend of yours met through Orkut or how many time an unknown number calling you asking for friendship. With technology your crush is easily accessible and you are connected to them almost every time but you accept or not it is the mother of most dangerous complications. Now the best of the lovers cheat because he/she gets access or being accessed by a large no of people at the same time. As the new opportunities come they take the current one for granted. The true feelings were earlier expressed through love letters, but now the sms are being forwarded carrying rhymes, shayaries, jokes etc downloaded from an internet site. The feeling when you miss somebody increase your love for somebody but now a mobile call kills that feeling. The curiosity to know somebody is being satisfied by visiting orkut or facebook accounts. I believe the things that can be sorted out by talking face to face personally can't be done through sms or phone call but it often leads to misunderstandings. The eye contact can make things believable but it is very difficult or impossible to make things believing to your partner over phone or sms. The routine dates are reduced to phone calls these days and lovers hardly see each other.

When someone is in love , he/she becomes a dreamer, they just start imagining their partner in everything they do, and in everywhere. but there is a large difference in reality, things mostly or never work out the way they keep imagining and then , it hurts. Some body met some one and like him/her and then start to think to be in love with him/her...now both are in love,they start imagining about marriage and to start a family...but if the things won't work the way they thought it will give unnecessary emotional disturbances .Why do we think a love is successful only after the couple get married ? Why love leads to impossible and unnatural dreams that has no significance in reality ? Why do we expect our partner the way we want him/her to be ? and that too our expectations are never ending. Why some body wants to change his/her partner to that qualities he/she was attracted to earlier ?...It's Complicated.

From Centuries, from the time of our forefathers certain love myths coming all around. I have collected some of them to mention here. Love at first sight ; Girl's no is yes ; Friendship is a form of love ; Love never dies ; True love can happen once in a lifetime ; If you are in love with something just let it go, the mother nature will bring it back to you ; True love need not to be expressed. I don't know if these things really exist but these things becomes a part of our perception and our approach towards love. For example if a girl says no, it means no , but we start thinking yes because ' girl's no is yes ' as per our knowledge . Again even if we love someone truly but we won't express it to that person then that person won't start seeing it that way (the way we think about that person). Furthermore that person will not find that much trust in us. Unless and until we throw these things away and become more practical to issues like love...It's Complicated.

When we are in Love we hardly listen to our mind it is always the heart to whom we listen to. Hence, we face a lot of complications. But what will happen if we start listening to our mind ? Does there will not be any complication or will be more of it ?...Just think about it...It's Complicated too.

I too had a love story...a heart touching tale

On Friday morning,I took my train to Bargarh from Bhubaneshwar. I am fond of reading Fictions written by Indian authors,so while moving towards the train I got to get a glimpse of the book stall in platform no3, I thought of buying a novel that i can read at home during my short vacation trip and i thought of purchasing 'Of course i love you' by Durjoy Dutta & Maanvi Ahuja but suddenly I got to find the book 'I too had a love story' by Ravinder Singh and got to know that Ravinder Singh is born and brought up in Burla,which is fairly nearby my native. I bought 'i too had a love story' instead and saved 'Of course i love you' for some other time. Moreover the tag-line of the book is 'a heartbreaking true love tale' which made me further curious about the story. Also it is Author's own love story.
I could not resist myself and started reading the book at the train itself .It is very well written. Every incident that has taken place between him and his first love is explained in detail and it is very original. I would not stop till i got off the train in Bargarh Station. Reaching my home I had my shower, lunch, a short nap and continued reading again . I don't know why but I never wanted to stop. With every pages things between him and his girlfriend was getting better . Every places that he has written about viz.Burla,Bhubaneshwar,Sambalpur,Delhi I know enough to get it visually in my brain. I remember once our English teacher in school said that there are some piece of art like music,painting,writing and stuffs like that in which you will be lost completely and feel like a current running through you , I never felt that way before for any book. It was just like living the story itself. That day I read untill the part where the author leaves for US. That night I thought what made the couple separated? why the lovers never get married after loving each other so much that a reader will eventually fall in love with them? What made the author dedicating the book in the loving memory of the girl whom he loved,yet could not marry? Lots of questions were running across my mind until i continued reading it next day evening.
The heartbreaking part begins, the fate how it take its turn that every thing around you seems like a lie. The events that left you so much broken that you will even doubt the existence of The God. It is believed that whatever God do is for the better of the mankind seems like a bullshit to you. Anyhow i just finished the book and almost cried for the two lovers. There are some parts that completely left you emotional. I would not felt that bad if it would have been a story but unfortunately it is a true story...where the love of Author's life passed away leaving him broken, taking away the colors,light and every single thing you derive happiness from.
The story or I would rather say the incident that took place in Author's life made a great impact in myself till now I wondered what it takes to be in true love and commitment but all my presumptions were wrong. The story changed my thoughts about L-O-V-E completely. But the picture is clearer now and I can understand what I have been missing till now. According to Ravinder Singh love stories never die with person and everybody has his unique one to tell. He also believe "Not every one in this world has the fate to cherish the fullest form of love.some are born just to experience the abbreviation of it"

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind

Recently,I watched a 2004 movie ,Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind,starring Jim Carrey,Kate Winslet & Kirsten Dunst.The movie deals with two separated couple (Winslet & Carrey ) and their urge to find peace out of loneliness and lack of love.For which they eventually delete memories from their respective mind related to each other, with the help of a doctor and his team. That worked for the movie and the actors were applaud with awards and nominations but i am not writing to review the movie but the subject the movie dealt with,'THE MEMORY ERASING'. It is impossible to delete someone from your memory unless you suffer from a serious brain damage,but what if in this era of advanced science and technology it become possible.

Not very long ago on a normal day one of my good friend and classmate,who is in a long term relationship with lots of up and down told me,If it is possible he would erase all memories of his lady love and live happily without her but breaking up with her , would make his life miserable with all the memories haunting him at the nights,days and all the time. I don't know what was wrong with them or how the things patched up but they are happy together till date.

Life,the collection of millions of experiences in form of memories. Some of them are good,some are bad,some are worth remembering lifetime ,some are insignificant. What would happen if we delete the bad part and keep the best parts only? Two types of situation may arise the good one are such as ,we will be confident very often,there will be no or less hate,violence,fraud,back stabbing etc ,the blood thirsty enemies will become best buddies. Let us take example of one of my friend at school who was really pissed off because a teacher used to punish him almost every day. For that reason he was lack on confidence most of time and scared, which lead him to make more mistakes and his relationship with that teacher never recovered. Just think if there happened to be something that would delete the memories related to that teacher then my friend would never loose his confidence and never be scared, never make more mistakes. Now comes the bad part of 'memory erasing',the bad memories are full of mistakes that we have done, and we learn from our mistakes. Yesterday another friend of mine lost his wallet and 2500 rupees in it,he lost it because he is careless with things,now that he lost a considerable amount of money he would take care of his things . But if he would erase the guilt part of loosing the sum he would further make such mistakes. Or the school friend of mine if he would delete the memories related to that teacher ,he would loose everything taught by that teacher.

If you would ask me if i would delete any of my memories related to something, I would never do that because I have learned a lot of things from my past and each and every significant people that I came across taught me something in good and bad form of memories. Because somebody has said ,"You can Erase someone from your mind,getting them out of you heart is another story".